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Posted on May 5th, 2008 by HummingBird : Joy HummingBird
Will_you_marry_me

Love

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Tagged with: love, marry me, :), Gien
MS : Gaia Child
about 1 hour later
MS said

That is so cool! 

Allow me to be the first Gaian buddy (on this page, at least) to say: Congratulations!  I'm so happy for you!  Your love story has been wonderful to follow and truly inspiring.

Can't wait to hear more about the plans, etc.

Lots of love to you both!

Mila : love
about 2 hours later
Mila said

Somehow, I knew this would happen sooner than later. Congratulations and best wishes.  Your love is going to rock the energy of ONE in so much positive way.  Hurray! Thank you for sharing this most wonderful news!

HummingBird : Joy
about 3 hours later
HummingBird said

Dear MorningStar and Mila
thank you SOOO much, two precious Gaian friends!
much love to you

about 3 hours later
Sherrilene said

YAYYYY! I am really happy for you. Love is truly wonderful and the highest form of human experience… probably of all existence! Bask in it and let that beautiful energy bring hope to so many who question the existence and the power of love. Happy, happy, happy!! sherri

buddingspritelet : flapping wings
about 3 hours later
buddingspritelet said

Yippee, love love love love love and more love :)
hugs and happy grapes,
Sprite 

Gien : yogic musician
about 4 hours later
Gien said

hmmm…hey! we're being watched!

we emerged from gaia
birthed on opposite sides of her body

we lived many years apart
unaware of the movements of each other
allowing karma to run her course
and create the future conditions of our own meeting

then we met here, on gaia
our karma had ripened
and we were finally destined to meet

like metal in a magnetic field
mysteriously drawn together by the forces of our past

so from gaia we were birthed
as we all are

in this short but infinitely long life
all moments are distilled into one

on this spirit path we both walked separately for so long
now we simply walk together
and we contended with questions
that all genuine practitioners will ponder
are we selfish in our union?
are we attached to each other?

Ultimately
all things are pure
whether we are Milarepa, sitting in isolated mountain solitary retreat
or his teacher Marpa, amongst his family and business
whether we walk apart or together
this journey is fundamentally the same
awareness of illusory self and of illusory other

when we walk alone we can walk in igorance or awareness
similiarly, when we walk together, we can walk with ignorance or awareness
we choose to walk together in awareness, my love
and allow love to flow into us, through us, and out of us
not getting stuck anywhere

2 hearts becoming 1
1 heart melting into emptiiness

love finds its ways into these hearts
these bodies unite in temporary union
life is fleeting
gone before you know it
while love is here
grow this awareness
share with others
and prepare for illusory bodies disolution

G<3A

HummingBird : Joy
about 5 hours later
HummingBird said

Sherri, thank you for traveling with us love, sharing our journey and constantly reminding us there is much sorrow in the world which so needs the warmth of loving awareness

Sprite, thank you for bringing a dance to this blog! and a smile to our lips :D

Gien, thank you for your endless love and poetry which flows from you so effortlessly

Nicole : wakingdreamer
about 6 hours later
Nicole said

woo hoo! yes! awesome!
showering rose petals over the happy couple!

HummingBird : Joy
about 6 hours later
HummingBird said

thank you, precious Nicole
for rose petals :)

Andy : just this
about 8 hours later
Andy said

Wow! Congratulations Gien and Anna! ;o)

If ever there was a definition of Soul mates then this is it! You two have such an awesomely beautiful thing together, something which very few people find. You are beacon of light and inspiration to the world… especially for those who have lost their faith in the existence of such Love!

I wish you all the best in your continued journey into the profound depths, heights, and infinite openness of this vibrant Love that you have both found, as it ripples out into eternity! :o)

Keep Shining!

Andy ;oD

HummingBird : Joy
about 8 hours later
HummingBird said

Andy thank you for your blessings raining down on us from tremendous capacity for beauty and love

Samme : Prince of Rainbows<3
about 13 hours later
Samme said

Wow indeed!  This is awesome.  I am happy for both of you to have met each other and going the next step.  You are both lovely people.  I have corresponded with Gien a number of times before talking about artistic and creative endeavors.  He is such a nice, kind, compassionate man and passionate about beauty and art the world can offer.  You are both lucky to have met each other.  Blessings to you both from now until infinity.  Love and bliss,
Samme

HummingBird : Joy
about 19 hours later
HummingBird said

thank you Samme
wonderful to have friends and loved ones here on Gaia

jagadish : swimmer
about 22 hours later
jagadish said

 C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S  and  B E S T  W I S H E S  to   HummingBird  and her dream boy…… and thank you for sharing the good news with us…..God bless you both with a long, happy, contented life of   T O G E T H E R N E S S………!!!!!!!!!! 

HummingBird : Joy
about 22 hours later
HummingBird said

Thank you Jagadish for your blessing and for being here

C.G. : Sacred Vow
about 22 hours later
C.G. said

Blessings and continuous joys to you and Gien, Anna….
Enjoy each other.
CG

HummingBird : Joy
1 day later
HummingBird said

thank you precious CG
may I wish you and Kathy the same!

ohmsmom : Proud Research Associate
1 day later
ohmsmom said

wishing you much love and happiness together always!

now i have a couple of questions for the gang here at Gaia.

where ever will we hold the wedding shower for our dearest hummingbird? - there should be gifts, and people and streamers, lots and lots of flowers cause hummingbirds love flowers :)

1 day later
Godess of Love said

Much love

HummingBird : Joy
1 day later
HummingBird said

Aaw Ohmsmom is being her Mom self! You are soo loving!
Biig hug

Starkey : A Howl of Peace
1 day later
Starkey said

Blessings to you!!!!

HummingBird : Joy
1 day later
HummingBird said

much love to you Authenitic Soul

HummingBird : Joy
1 day later
HummingBird said

Thank you for your blessings Starkey!
so much love here! Aren’t we all so fortunate!

Kitabu Roshi : ZEN MASTER/ROSHI/REVEREND
1 day later
Kitabu Roshi said

The power of love is never more evident than when two souls find unity across time and space.Now in your “merging” you will discover your oneness….a wondrous new journey continues in a new dimension of feeling-learning. I celebrate your joy. My heart is dancing with you and Gien. Congratulatons. I send you love and the love of The Soul Sword Zen Community….Gaia is speaking for itself, and I am enjoying the feedback you're receiving.

Jenny : Sparkle
1 day later
Jenny said

Hummingbird, all the best to you and Gien, I'm truly happy for you! You are a wonderful couple. Sending you my warmest regards and much love and happiness!!! God bless.

HummingBird : Joy
1 day later
HummingBird said

Kitabu Roshi, thank you for your precious words and for joining this celebration

Jenny, thank you so much!

I am moved by so much love
so beautiful
- love resonating

Doug : Back Yard Artist
1 day later
Doug said

Something told me to pop over to your blog and true to form I'm a day late! lol!
Big hugs Hummy and Gien and sloppy wet cheek kisses too! I'm so happy for you two!
So I need to know when the date is so I can be out of earthquake country. That much love combined… Hmm I'm not sure it's be done before. Are you sure this is safe?
I certainly hope not!
Anything but safe, anything but ordinary!

Nicole : wakingdreamer
1 day later
Nicole said

definitely not safe, definitely extraordinary, definitely…

supercalifragilisticexpealidocious! :):):)

HummingBird : Joy
2 days later
HummingBird said

Doug, thank you very precious friend who's artist/alchemist eye I have looked through so often, and watched pain transform to gold

Aaw, Nicole thank you for the song :D and adding another sprinkling of alchemist's gold dust

Gien : yogic musician
2 days later
Gien said

Yes, Doug, you are right
it's a lot of love combined!
You have no idea! hehe
Jopoa, Gra-anna, Hummingbird and I!
Very explosive!
Our “I love you's” are volumous
here's comes one now!….

I love you Anna
heart dissolving when I say this
boundaries of body and world dissolving
only a fullness in the space where heart used to be
I know
that our whole lives will be like this
in every moment
we shall be completely dissolved

Soon these two bodies
separated by a lifetime's karma
will be reunited
to journey together
into mutual awareness
into supercalifragilisticexpealidociousness

In the relative, samsaric world
we exist
as separate beings
but this journey together
will be not unlike the Vajrayana path itself
transforming whatever ignorance we bring into our union
into wisdom nectar
Taking self-centered love
and finding at its root
pure nondual, primorial wisdom

You and I
have already passed many tests
have already seen Obstacles
and penetrated them through
to reveal their beautiful, underlying true form

With openess
we shall embrace all obstacles on our path
and welcome them as friends in disguise
oppurtunites
for each other's growth
and instead of running and hiding from them
which is the normal fear-filled, egoistic human tendency
which only brings greater separation, further alienation
and greater distance from the very truth our life's existence
is meant to move us towards
we will delight in the possibility
of revealing some old habitual karmic trace
and in so doing
move a step closer towards personal realization
of our own expansive inner truth

We already know, my love
that there is no criticism
only pointing out instructions from each to the other
of our karmic traces
pointing out done in the most loving of ways
from a position of deep love and respect for the other

Knowing this deeply
when old habitual feelings
of hurt and defensiveness arise
they dissolve immediately
in the field of love
which we have commited to surround ourselves with

When the light of our awareness shines on it
dissolves it like ice in the midday sun
melting away our fixed solid ego clingings
which make for stubborness and fixed views
destructive, illusory ego views of “I’m right” and “you’re wrong”
dissolving away all our subtle conceptual solidification
and revealing the unattachable
free flowing love of the universe beneath

We will melt together in every way
First 2 becoming 1
then 1 vanishing into 0
emptiness

For in genuine love
we recognize ourselves
as 2 currents of the primordial mother
reuniting and dissolving back into itself
our love combined
a whole which is greater than the sum of its parts

Our love
flows in the main artery of each others heart
bringing us back into the peaceful state
of a wild yogi and yogini

My love and I already know
that our journey together is one of awareness
of finding in this union
the love that will allow us to let go completely
of loving without attachment
to appreciate each other in the moment
and to see each other as a representative
of the primordial mother all around us
Already, we have made this sacrifice many times

We are each the diamond reflecting surface
that reflects the infinite network of jewels all around us
in each one of you

Loving in this way
together we move towards embodying
the highest aspirations of Shakyamuni Buddha
of dissolving our conceptual boundary
between the two poles
of internal and external reality
and in this way
allowing the free flow of natural bodhicitta

In love
we recognize this role of our hearts
when unblocked by pure bliss
the kind that can well up and trigger tears to flow effortessly
(…they're always behind the eyes, as Hummingbird always says!)
it becomes a conduit for this ceaseless flow of loving kindness
from the primordial mother
into our hearts
out of our hearts
and into the hearts of all those surrounding us
and back into the primordial mother
bodhicitta
reminding ourselves of our sacred inner truth

Each moment of blissful, heart melted unity
that we awaken with together in our morning
we bring into the rest of the day
to practice illusory body
as we move in the mandala surrounding us
and helps us to visualize all the deities around us
wrathful and peaceful ones, enemies and friends
all arisen from the same dharmakaya ground
solid appearing illusory forms
and when we return to our slumber at night
once again embracing each other
and dissolve into our second, lesser dream
to do luminosity practice and dream yoga

May blessings of our union
rain down upon all who encounter its effects
these words, or auspicously,
maybe our physical beings, one day
greeting each one of you

May our love
existing in the true spirit of bodhicitta
and for whom we recognize deep sacredness
be a reminder for all who see it
of the sacredness of their own loving relations in life

May these words resonate strongly
with all beings who come upon them
and remind them again
of the true meaning of union with another
and of the preciousness of all lives

Life is a wave
and we are all a part of it
We are at the crest of this wave
being alive and in this moment
Surely this crest will fall one day
and we all return
to the deep, unmoving ocean
of our primordial nature
While here and riding atop this wave of life
may we all find bliss and emptiness

E ma Ho!

Anna and are going to have a small private ceremony
as soon as I arrive in Johannesburg
but have a much larger celebration
maybe one in Canada as well as one in South Africa

we have spoken about incorporating
a live web component to our celebration
to share with our friends at Gaia
we will surely keep all our friends at Gaia informed!

Many Blessings
from Jopoa, Gra-anna, Hummingbird, Gien

HummingBird : Joy
2 days later
HummingBird said

Aaw thank you Genie
poet without beginning or end
… joyous one
:D

Gien : yogic musician
2 days later
Gien said

my love,

it is your love
our love
that makes a Rumi out of me
…not me writing anymore

Starseed : Lovesong
2 days later
Starseed said

BEST WISHES and CONGRATULATIONS, Anna and Gien!  Thanks for sharing this with us…very exciting how and where you met.   Much, much love, joy, peace and happiness!

Love, Light and Laughter,
Starseed

Samme : Prince of Rainbows<3
2 days later
Samme said

Dear Anna, a poet and a musician and a kindhearted man?  Gien is a keeper.  Lucky you both.  The picture taken by Gien you use as an icon, that is so beautiful, it is a picture of a woman in love looking at  her beloved, it's in your eyes, and love is written all over the picture.  blessings,
Samme

HummingBird : Joy
2 days later
HummingBird said

Thank you Gien, a reminder our great inspration, Rumi who relinquishes self for awareness

Friends and loved ones, at this moment I want to bring our precious friend, Abdullah, to our celebration. Abdullah said to remember he would perform our marriage ceremony when we 1st spoke of our love! His presence is always in our hearts.
Abdullah says:
'I do not exist without the Beloved, as a flame does not exist without oxygen, and am a Sufi servant of the Beloved.'
Prayer with precious Abdullah who meets health challenges
Please hold him in all your vast endless hearts

Starseed thank you for bringing your sacred love to this celebration

every being here reflecting sacredness

Gien : yogic musician
2 days later
Gien said

Aah! Samme, you are so ACCURATE about this picture!
It's my favorite one
my love is so melted
…melts me each time I see this

I said to anna
this picture of you so beautiful
it shows the bliss you feel
at this precious love you experience between us

E ma Ho

HummingBird : Joy
2 days later
HummingBird said

Thank you sweet Samme

Nicole : wakingdreamer
2 days later
Nicole said

thank you, receiving your alchemist's sprinkling, sending out prayers for your friend, and for you and Gien, wordsmith extraordinaire, transformed by love - glory!

HummingBird : Joy
3 days later
HummingBird said

mm… yes, Genie always melting me :D


thank you Nicole - recognition
love flowing back to itself

owais : Be good, Do good
3 days later
owais said

Hurray, how lucky you are humming birdjee to search your lost love through Gaia.

My sincere apologies for acknowledging and congratulating you so late anyway I was quite sad last past days so was not feeling to write. hey I am back to felicitate you much earnestly and much effervescencely.

wow, it is soooo cool, is sooooooo inspiring, is soooooo joyous and is offcourse rejoicing and cantering moments for both of them which offcourse has caused me to sing along freely, I see Gaians too rejoicing in our true love exploration, I am felicitating you on your love meeting it is great to read all the loves gains poured.

I am so happy to see and feel the joys of true loves and its essence in the air of gaia, really just try to feel friends so much brisky and crispy compliments and earnest felicitations to both of them, wow this amazingly beautiful, it is so great and lovely and sweet of gains that huge support for true love keep it up.

your finace gienjee wrote such a sensual, exhorting and wondrous poem, great poem much seemingly radiating profuse flow of loves for you by him, I am so thrilled and overjoyed by this post, lovely magnificent. I wish all the best for both of you,

hey your this post is inspiring and impelling and provoking and evoking the spirit of loves in everyone who haunt your this precious post, I just say magnificently touching post, thank you so much and very much for posting it, greaaat.

May you both blessed with purity of love and its true essence likewise and keep ascent likewise in your this true love everlasting, wow two souls are integrating so lavishly so lovingly !

HummingBird : Joy
3 days later
HummingBird said

thank you dear Owais for celebrating love with us :)
I am happy that you no longer feel sad!
Genie is such a poet!
He's melted me too by sending me songs he'd created for me while I was sleeping

This was my 1st poem to Genie: Love Poem

owais : Be good, Do good
3 days later
owais said

O being of purest loves and profound respects you hold, I am so happy today for the support I saw by Gains for embracing your true love, it is so bracing and wonderful, I am just happiest to see by their loves for acknowledging your true love, cheers many times for this huge celebrations of your life humming birdjee from my sides, many many felicitations and congratulations earnestly to you and gienjee, woooohoooo you rocked us by your true love, I fascinate very largely true love and pure love and indeed it is only life!

wishing you a much happiest and peaceful life with gienjee and always blessed be with him and keep integrating likewise in purity and essence of true loves with him !

Gien : yogic musician
3 days later
Gien said

Thank you for your beautiful word blessings Owais! Truly you have a wonderful and joyous way of expressing!

What is there in life
other than great bliss?
…the great bliss of being alive
and being alive with other beings such as ourselves!
We humans, we must learn to live together, mustn't we?
as we love those in our own lives
we must love those in the rest of the world
in the same way

Our partners
they are the local place where we learn to cultivate love for everyone else in this cosmos
they are our microcosm and source of practice
for virtue, patience, kindness
and for how well we let go of our ego
how to deal with poisons should they arise
and transform them into wisdoms

When we, in our personal relationships have learned to unleash the bliss within each of us
then we can truly transform the world
For the world at war with itself
has it's roots in a failure of love in one's own personal life

It is the responsibility of each person in each such partnership of life
to transform the ignorance within their life into wisdom
to transform aggression into it's pure underlying form
of great clarity, precision and sharpness of awareness

Through so doing
the 2 partners assist themselves
in the genuine spiritual journey
of penetrating each their own illusory Self
and at the same time
they relate to the world in a non egoistic way as well
…with loving kindness and awareness
rather than aggression

In our relationship, if we fall  deeper into attachment, anger aggression and jealousy then we must recognize those signs as moving in a direction of egoistic clinging
On the other hand, if we lessen our attachment, become more loving, welcome obstacles and criticisms always as oppurtunities for growth, want to encourage our partners love to spill into other peoples lives, then those are signs of spiritual growth

We can all simultanously create
a beautiful, inspiring and blissful personal life
as well as a more humane world at large
simply by paying attention to our personal relationship
and seeing it as a genuine spiritual partnership
a constantly evolving spiritual training ground

Within the framework of our pesonal love
there is precious oppurtunity for cultivating ever greater love
that moves us towards realization
May we all seize this precious oppurtunity!

HummingBird : Joy
3 days later
HummingBird said

Yay!
we set the date today for the 28th June

Gien : yogic musician
3 days later
Gien said

and very auspicious date that we chose together, my love!
Sandwiched between our 2 birthdays!
..birth of Anna, birth of Anna and Gien and birth of Gien

Nicole : wakingdreamer
3 days later
Nicole said

that is so beautiful, Gien, so touching!

Satya-Seer : Present - See me?
5 days later
Satya-Seer said

All at once: <applauding, laughing, crying tears of great joy, jumping up and down … > I will hold great happiness in my awareness for the two of you …

HummingBird : Joy
5 days later
HummingBird said

Thank you Satya-Seer for holding us in your heart so
and spreading love and joy :)
much love

13 days later
Peridot said

…I am adding my joy and laughter and love to this most beautiful joining of two incredible hearts!!!!

HummingBird : Joy
13 days later
HummingBird said

thank you precious gem, Peridot!

Samme : Prince of Rainbows<3
about 1 month later
Samme said

29.  Hugs and peace to you Gien and Ana,
start here  then go to the next one
http://assaji.gaia.com/blog/2008/5/friends_of_assaji_tanchangya#comments

thank you,
samme

HummingBird : Joy
about 1 month later
HummingBird said

aaw Samme, you are so playful and loving, thank you for the presence you are!

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